The upstairs floor creaks at midnight. A door slams at two. Someone's television comes through the wall at a volume you can hear but not follow, which is somehow worse than loud.
Every search on this leads to soundproofing, and in a rented flat soundproofing is not available. You cannot line the walls, you cannot change the floor, and acoustic foam does approximately nothing for the frequencies that actually travel through a building.
The good news is that the problem you are trying to solve is not the one you think.
It is not the volume. It is the contrast.
A quiet room with an occasional bang in it is far harder to sleep through than a room with a steady background. Your brain is built to notice change, not level — which is why people sleep on aeroplanes and wake when the engine note shifts.
That means the achievable goal is not silence. It is raising the floor, so the bang no longer arrives into nothing.
What raises the floor
A steady, broadband sound at low volume. Not music, which has structure your brain follows. Not a fan on a timer, which stops at the worst moment.
A dedicated white noise machine is the direct version, and the reason to use one rather than a phone app is that a phone stops for notifications, drains overnight, and sits somewhere you have to reach for. A dedicated one is set once and forgotten.
Use it quieter than feels right. It should be audible when you listen for it and unnoticeable when you do not. If it is loud enough to mask the noise completely, it is loud enough to keep you shallow.
A small fan running low does the same job and adds moving air, which is the other thing a city bedroom usually needs. In summer it is the better of the two.
What helps at the edges
Soft things low in the room. A hard-surfaced bedroom lets sound bounce and arrive twice. One textile at floor or seating height takes the edge off the reflection. It will not stop the neighbour; it changes how sharp the sound is when it gets to you.
Darkness, because the two travel together. Being woken by a noise is survivable. Being woken by a noise into a room where the streetlight is already on your face is what turns it into an hour awake. A sleep mask is the cheapest half of the fix.
Move the bed off the shared wall if you possibly can. Twenty centimetres of air between the headboard and the plaster does more than any product on this page, and it is free.
What does not work
Foam panels sold for soundproofing. They are designed to stop echo inside a room, not to stop sound entering it, and they are near-useless against footsteps and bass.
Earplugs, for most people, most nights. They work and then they hurt, and you stop using them by week two.
Talking to the neighbour, usually — although it is worth doing once, politely, because occasionally the noise is something they did not know about and can simply stop.
The order to try it in
Move the bed. Add a steady background at low volume. Fix the light. Then, if it is still bad, consider whether the problem is the flat rather than the noise.
The rest of the room is in the Bedroom.
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Common questions
Why don't foam panels or earplugs solve neighbour noise long-term?
Foam panels are built to stop echo inside a room, not to stop sound entering it, and are close to useless against footsteps and bass; earplugs work at first but start to hurt, so most people stop using them by the second week.
Why use a dedicated white noise machine instead of a phone app?
A phone app stops when a notification comes in, drains the battery overnight, and sits somewhere you have to reach for — a dedicated machine is set once and forgotten.
How loud should the background sound be?
Quieter than feels right — it should be audible when you listen for it and unnoticeable when you don't. If it's loud enough to mask the noise completely, it's loud enough to keep you in shallow sleep.
What's the single free fix that helps most?
Moving the bed off the shared wall — about twenty centimetres of air between the headboard and the plaster does more than any product on the page, and it costs nothing.
